I'm in the camp that views submissives as a strong position mind you not a weak one. Those that are submissives on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 is don't Mall food court, Latina girl. like at all and 10 is it how would you rate your interest in the following: 1) Being Controlled a) Following orders behind closed doors: b) Power Exchange(following rules/orders when not behind closed doors): 2) Punishment a) Hand Spanked over the knee: b) Flogged (Ass/thys): c) Flogged (chest): d) Cained: e) Face Slapped f) Without being bad(Some subs just need to be punished without being naughty..they need pain): g) Being Choked (typiy during heightened points of play): 3) Oral a) Giving: b) Receiving: 4) Anal: 5) Humiliation/Degredation (Behind closed doors given propery context of play) a) Verbal (ed Slut, Whore, Bitch etc): b) Physical (perhaps made to play a game where you are a good little bitch puppy) 6) Objectification a) Being used b) Being used roughly I have an extensive BDSM list that gets into much more detail but this isn't bad for a quickie ;P It's been my experience that a lot of pure submissives don't care to receive oral which I find interesting.